Husband: a synonym for many!

They say that Marriage is a holy relationship made in heaven. How lucky one must be when you are blessed with a wonderful Soulmate.

And the time is here to thank my incomparable Soul, My Husband, who is:

*My Hero Father - to boost my strength when I am weak
*My Caring Mother - with unconditional love
*My Super Enemy Sibling - yet the best guide
*My Best Buddy - to share with anything anytime
*My Little Innocent Child - to whom I am the complete world

The contended life is a complete experience of a world in a relationship with just one person, the husband, is a magical fairytale journey to every woman.

Yes, and I have witnessed a joy of the dream of a splendid and serene partnership of life with My Soulmate. Whose dream is his Family? Happiness is togetherness.

“Be thankful for what you have you will end up having more."

Cherish!

Mother: The Seventh Sense

The connection that we share before entering the world, even before the disconnection of the umbilical cord makes our mothers have the superpower of intuition in understanding her child better than anyone, as she can foresee the events happening in advance. Often we criticize and disagree with our mother's protective words and decisions. We're wrong.

For instance; we sometimes /often fail to see who our true friends are, but our mothers almost, always identify the fake ones, isn't it wondrous!

Remember the mother is the first teacher. When anyone can blindly believe and learn the things which are taught during the adolescence phase then why not in our adulthood. Though they aren't updated like us at times we need to be patient just like she was.

The nourishment of one's health, relationship, and life is a gift from the mother. To whom the support system is a father. It is wonderful that our needs are fulfilled without even asking for it.

Aren't we stupid enough to believe someone else over our parents?

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The Misunderstood Mystery!

Fools are those who go into vain where a change in someone's, presence, nature, attitude, value, and behavior is experienced. For instance; we often misunderstand that the demise of a person is final, but only a few of them believe that the soul is eternal.

When mortal remains of human are either buried or burnt we regardlessly start believing that the person is no more.In spite of knowing the truth. Some people suffer more than needed.

The soul can shape itself in other forms migrating to another body. Similarly, if you expect the one you love to change their primary nature is a foolish hope. One can change their nature for a while. But not forever.

Love and respect the one who values your originality rather than expecting them to change as per your expectations. 

Forgive and forget the one who suppresses and humiliates the real you. Because some things do not change even if it is burnt. Instead, it turns into ashes.

It's like expecting mango fruit from an apple tree. It's ultimately your choice of either eating an apple or planting or searching a mango tree.

Do not foolishly waste your precious time on something where there is no hope.

Stepping back for something bigger change will lead you to the pompous path.

What's your mystery?

A mistake in a mistake!

Unless you realise the pain of disinterested life. You keep lying to yourself that you are happy. To cover one mistake, we tend to commit another and one more and so on.

It's best to accept your mistake and forgive yourself to relieve you from the guilt and to take better decisions in the future, rather than suppressing oneself into an awful path and ending up your life with misery.

As a popular proverb, "A stitch in time saves nine" shows if you sort out a problem immediately it may save extra work later. Likewise, punishment is not only the ultimate result for mistakes committed. Give yourself a break! you need to forgive yourself before expecting forgiveness. Only then you'll find inner peace.

This will help you lead your life with no regrets by accepting the fact that your mistakes are in the past and opportunities are in the future.

First and foremost duty of oneself is learning to love, respect and value yourself. Each one of us is the supreme creation of a creator.

What's your choice misery or opportunity?

Traffic Feelings!

Various feelings and thoughts create commotion in action. They say it's a mood swing, depression, anger and many. But I feel it's the confused overpowering mind against the still heart.

In the 21st century, a man is assigned with uncountable tasks to meet his deadlines. I pity the busy mind!

The mind is a fixed irreplaceable gadget to our body which acts like a computer. There is a thin line between technology and mind. Where a man doesn't realize that he is not a machine. If a man-made technology losses its life, the loss is just investment. What if man losses something that's more significant than money? That is life! 

In the race of surviving into a competitive world, understanding and valuing the difference between precious things in life and taking care of such things matters the most these days.

Relieve the mind from stress. Challenges and solutions come hand in hand. Try to recognize the hidden strength of yourself by sorting out the things accordingly. 

As traffic signal signalizes to the right path which leads to a safe journey, likewise let traffic feelings lead to safe destiny.

Respect and Preserve the gift (i.e body) of Almighty. 

Lead a healthy life.

What's more precious than life?

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Circumstances or fate

They say that God resides within a child, as he/she is bound with a pure soul. When

unexpected mistakes or events take place the first one to whom we believe as primary proof is a child.

But children are the one, whose imaginations are beyond our belief. A child starts lying and blaming others in the fear of punishment on committing a mistake. The values inculcated in the children of the current generation is,'survival'at the cost of life and respect.

For instance; the fear in teachers of correcting a child's mistake at school has turned out to ignorance for the security of their professional and monetary goals.

It's disheartening to see someone struggle for change and receiving the other aspect as a result. Not just a school teacher every human is blessed with specific teaching skill. Understanding and taking things sensibly to accomplish a goal of our life is the choice of an individual. Though it is a child, an adult, or an old man. Sensitizing each one of them at the tender age about what is good and bad. Makes our life simple and easier. Rather than regretting later.

Should rules and regulations be restricted to one's dignity and self-respect?

My Secret Santa!

It was cloudy and pouring, and it was my birth month, she held my hand and was taking me to the path of my dream future. That very night an unexpected transformation of the role from a sister to parent took birth. That was the month where I was born as a daughter twice in my lifetime.

Sleepless nights, tedious journeys, endless paths, unfulfilled goals, was the only home for her mind to dwell in. Such a wonderful soul to share with, as my sister. Is'nt it a special thing that anyone could be blessed with?

There is a beautiful saying, "when one door closes, another opens", yes it did happen to me and I cherish this blessing forever. Years passed, cannot get the time which she lost. In return, to thank my sister have chosen to pen down some of my unsaid gratitude as a memorable post to dedicate the superwoman of my life, my sister.

Sometimes, God's plan is tremendously unexpected and overwhelming.

How many of you'll are fortunate enough to have such a person in your life? 

Sacrifice: boon or curse?

The day he took birth, was his first and foremost achievement of overcoming the challenge by himself without any help i.e doctors around. Father had to strive all over a thunderstorm path to see his little newborn. After a long year it was the time for the little one to return back to his paternal home, into their own castle. By facing all kind of challenges he grew into a teen. Had to complete responsibility of his family at such a tender age. Postponing many dreams to fulfill, he grew older and older as a complete man.

And the postponement of his dreams turned to rigid sacrifice.

Days passed, age lapsed nobody to guide and compensate the time and knowledge he lost throughout his journey. He had no idea where exactly he reached. At the time of his turning phase of life, all he could recollect and share was his suppressed relatives, mean world and his favorite friends. The only thing he could do was to blame his fate, by building the fear of plummeting into his failed desires, wishes, and dreams.

Accepting the challenging life he spent few more precious years in seeking the right time to start with. And when the time was right he pretends to be strong and motivated with the  fear of his responsibilities and duties towards his family hasn't come to an end.

He created a wonderful home, beautiful relationships, lost his own world and became the one to his dear ones.

His journey of new life has begun with the same old well-versed duties and sacrifices but with a new partner, new relationships, new goals, new home, and new hope.

Was that a God's plan of

moulding him into a complete best human?
Or
fulfilling his unknowing dream of simple contended life with family and dear ones?

A reward to wife.

Just a morning kiss on the forehead with a smile expressing that how much you love her. Keeps her lively and energetic throughout the day. A hug before you leave to work makes her feel safe in your absence. A call for at least a moment in the afternoon before you have your bite will keep her through, the rest of the day.

When you return back home in the evening show that eagerness of missing her throughout the time you were away from her.
End the day by thanking her for being there for you which motivates her in making your life beautiful and home the wonderful heaven on Earth.

Instead of appreciating, acknowledge the art of her restless job of working at home without holidays and break. Not even a particular time to start off and end on something. Try to get into her shoes to understand the better her.

Do you think this reward is too expensive to present your wife?

A Letter to Father!

Dear Father,

How stupid I was in my childhood, about taking care of you after I grow up. Life is really a scary roller coaster, where fun and laughter is debt. You never know when you may have to repay it and in what form. I wish you would have involved me in the challenges you faced in life. At least I would be prepared for the uncertainties of life.

Sometimes I am dumbstruck for the challenges I face in life and conclude with silence as the best remedy to it. Strange world and people. They say we are all children of one creator, but I still feel like a stranger. It seems like I am anyhow crawling like a little child with struggles I face, though I am grown up now. Wished to have you even today to stand with me as a Hero.

I wonder to either have a Hero or become a Hero which I wanted one?

They say souls reside in the heart of their most beloved one, and yes I speak to you every day though you are invisible to me. And I chose to become a Hero which I wanted one. Because nobody can take place of a father rather than pretending to be there for me just like you were.

Some phases of life are unpredictable and yes I realized to move on instead seeking or replacing the one we lost.

What would you choose, have a Hero or become one?

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Believe

Negativity, My Goodness! The word itself is a nightmare. Where one starts believing that he or she is already into vain, nobody even attempts to see another face of negativity, is an opportunity in shifting the path of one's perception of switching onto the ideas or action of reaching the goal.

For instance, when a person is ill, he is paranoid. And starts pretending to be alright than accepting the fact of sickness rather than curing it. Though we are matured enough, at times we tend to depend on others seeking comfort in them like a Child. Prayers and the words of people around becomes the medicine of illness.

Is Negativity an Opportunity?

Observation and Reaction.

Observation and reaction is such a beautiful relationship, which very few people understand to the core. For instance, when someone comes across uncertainties like an accident, people around tend to react and help equally with the same reaction. Why don't they have the common sense of dividing their concern and getting things done as soon as possible? Rather than doing the same step of help by different people at the same time.

It's disappointing when you are misunderstood and is told to react just like others do. Here comes the dilemma of doing the things as per your understanding or to continue the foolishness with fools around you.

Sometimes, we are bound to follow others so much that, we tend to become blind to the situation making it worse than solving. Meanwhile, people also judge when there is a strange opposite reaction from others instead of respecting and accepting one's sensible action.

Think Over!