Job Creators!

Talking about the reason or source of the current generation's motivation and success seems lame. You are showcasing how demotivated and sloth just because of a meaningless breakup or a humiliation. 

Which means you are crediting those who let you down, one might do it with a good heart and use the pain as a positive reinforcement for the betterment and progress. But there is no gain in pointing out and making yourself feel better. In fact, this makes you petty because you needed an external force to realize your potential. 

One should be motivated for the sake of being motivated not for the sake of showing off. The only person you have to show off is yourself because only you can truly be happy about your accomplishments. 

Self-love is the purest form of love, One can be motivated with the help of an external factor, that can drive only the people who have self-love, if not it either drives one to madness or death itself. 

Why wait until you are cheated or ditched to help you motivate. Be sensible enough if you are in this generation. Where you are taught to discover and identify your strengths and weakness.

Should I call it foolish and purposeful idleness or insensible and immature trying to pretend hopelessly and enjoy coziness?

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Dear Haters,

Grateful to help me in being for what I am now. Please keep up the great work.

Yours Favorite.

The Traveler

We are all the travelers of this little journey, where we end up with the mess of relationship, position, money, and materials. But the fact is we should seek and always want to end up mind, positivity, and calmness.

Hey, I wanna tell you something very important, that you are not gonna stay here forever. So why don't you make some productive and memorable things the priority? You are just a traveler but not the owner of this creation to claim anything as your own. Let's be grateful for what we have and not fight or worry about what we do not possess. 

Just like you travel by train and get to see and experience the beautiful and incomparable view on the path of what's next. that is a soulful experience where you forget the past and move forward, that's all it is, we're all the travelers in the journey of life.

People who forget and cherish the past move forward, but most of them fail to realize that the past is something that we are supposed to leave behind but instead, they cling on to it. Traveling is a process! Just freaking enjoy it, man!

Everyone won't start at the same spot and the destination won't be the same either. We are assigned different tasks to fulfill as an individual soul. Wherein, we got to identify and be contented for what we are here rather than comparing and doing the tasks of others and for others, this is where we fail and are disappointed without knowing that we are on a different track by giving up our track. In the process of self-actualization.

Accidents happen on the journey and in the journey of life as well, some accidents are bad and make us sad, but there are some things that happen accidentally but we just love them, for instance, people! After a certain age, you realize that people who actually matter are the people who we accidentally met.

Let the advent be towards what we are here and hope of what might arrive. Not towards the time we are here.

Travelling had endless paths, and adding the purpose to it makes sense of contentment with no more puzzled minds and pause.

Get set go, Have a safe and happy journey!

Isn't traveling a wonderful thing?

Straight forward: I hope you don't mind!

How weird are the people who call themselves straightforward!Have you ever thought if you face or come across people with the same straightforward nature and you take it the same as others take you when you taunt or comment on them?

In fact, you tend to call them rude and fools for underestimating. Maturity works better when you don't know the real meaning of a few adjectives you title yourself. As soon as you start presenting or describing yourself to the people and to the world. I believe in "SWOT Analysis" i.e., first analyzing one's strengths, weaknesses, threats, and opportunities. So that you can be perfectly aware of the meaning of the terms you address yourself or describe your nature. Vocabulary building plays a significant role here. Learning new terms and words is a sign of a very good learner. But understanding the meaning of the new terms and words and using them appropriately wherever and whenever required is the sign of diligence. 

I pity those who tend to learn very less and show off more. The best suitable popular proverb I believe is "empty barrels make the most noise". Here people with humble and polite nature can win the hearts when chosen to tag them into this hypocrisy. Who can be forgiven and forgotten for whatever hurtful or foolish things they do. Admitting mistakes or even just pretending to be sorry for other's mistakes is the basic manner one should learn and follow in their life. Also, approaching someone's drawbacks should be in a subtle manner so that they aren't hurt.

This nature can be converted into an expression, of what an individual feels for the pros and cons of others. And what can be done to make it alright in advising and suggesting suitable solutions? Let us all give and take the freedom of learning and helping what we don't know and giving what we know the best.

Comparing yourself to others and trying to be cool for what nature you have, shows how one is stagnant enough for not accepting what you are and degrading others for what they do not have and are. 

Grow up 'Mr/Ms. Straight forward' or else we gotta start addressing you as immature 'Master/ Baby. Straight forward'.

I delete the nature of being cool enough for being straightforward from my dictionary though I ain't.

Can you do the same? 

When will you make/ do your "SWOT Analysis" ?.

Being Diplomatic!

People call me a diplomatic, sugar-coating, buttering, or whatever. But I call myself an appreciating and accepting person. 

Nowadays, people tend to easily comment or judge the people around them within no time. Without giving a thought of understanding what the opposite one is going through or the challenges they face. They also are immersed in judging people so much that they compare their strengths to other's weaknesses by showing their superiority. 

If one is good at something and not good at something else, it doesn't mean you can show your superiority, you might be inferior in something too, would you appreciate it if someone shows you superiority over your inferiority?

Life is a process of learning and giving. Not taking and showing off with pride. You all must be aware of motivation and encouragement. Yes, the first and primary element or nature of this is acceptance and appreciation. Then comes examples and other sub-elements. 

When you can mouth publicize and compliment the name or the product by just watching videos and advertisements without using the product, then you must be more aware and appreciable of the people who are close and around you. Everyone on this planet is a brand in themselves. Maybe they are unaware of how to create awareness and make a face value of it.

Each one of us is an incomparable and a special soul with valuable and irreplaceable innate selves.

Let's utilize the good sense of our wonderful brain to help in understanding and valuing each other’s blessings, gifted by almighty rather than making a job out of it in shaming one.

Yes, they call me a typical tailor-made diplomatic person and I call myself a hope of acceptance and love for what one is.

At times even a small ray of acceptance may help oneself to overcome the challenges just because we believe they can.

Who are you? The Rising Hope like a Rising Sun or The Fierceful Dark Night like an end of existence?

Quarantine 365!

Most of us must have realized the proper meaning of Quarantine now but what about the women who are staying at home without complaining about their boredom, dreams, hangouts, walk, playing, socializing, etc., Surprised or shocked?

I will tell you, we are least bothered about knowing other's feelings and situations. We are much bothered of how to keep us entertained meanwhile this pandemic ends. Aren't we?

So, many homemakers or housewives spend their days in household work, nourishing family members, guarding the house. Maybe their quarantine doesn't have a reason like we do in this inevitable pandemic situation.

I feel soldiers, nurses, and policemen are the brave hearts who selflessly do what they do. Likewise, those helpless and selfless housewife are also soldiers, who guard the home, nurses the family, and protects them, happily and expects nothing in return. Which means, the women are as significant as the brave hearts who sacrifice their true self and surrenders to the norms of new environment post marriage.

At some crucial point, everyone learns the value of something, in this situation the world is facing. We need to take some time to learn the value of the women, who feel as bored as you do in these past few weeks.

In the current situation where we're in quarantine, waking up late, binge-watching Netflix, playing Video games, eating a variety of food, but what about the women? They used to cook, they are still cooking.

Mother earth is healing due to less pollution, when are we gonna let the mothers heal? Even now she is readily watching online tutorials and making extra dishes which we miss from the outside world, just to keep us happy, 

Utterly shocked or pleasantly surprised for an opportunity to realize the lock-down of a housewife?

Excited! to know your discovery of Quarantine stories.

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So let's take this opportunity and spare some time to applaud each and every woman who sacrifice more than we know.

What's your superwomen's quarantine story?

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MINE, Forever!

'I hate you'! he said. "Never want to see your face again" my heart whispered. There the unknowing love story began to bud. Trying to avoid the soft corner for each other, diplomatic greetings and conversations continued.

Days passed, we departed. Situations occurred to bring us both closer and closer. Slowly hatred turned into likings. General wishes, secret meetings, hush-hush! texts and calls, care and love, cause to happen.

Before the internet was mainstream, expensive call and SMS rates, was a barrier that caused us sleepless nights. Trying every possible way to hear and to see each other drove us crazy. By the time we realized our craziness, we used to laugh and criticize others for their routine doings of cliche, the funniest irony is that we are one of them now, and I'm glad!

Silent prayers for lifelong inseparableness grew stronger and stronger. Preparation in organizing and fulfilling basic formalities continued. Neither, he proposed nor, I. But definitely it's the best plan of God I believe. Without any reason, the situation brought us together smoothly, with all kinds of the test we had to go through.

Acknowledging and fulfilling the duties and responsibilities towards each other's families, societal rituals and formalities mattered us least. Within no time, differences in thoughts, family expectations, priorities bothered each of us. 

The dispute between unassigned priorities and priorities we were born with diminished the spark of our lives. And the will of never give up. Would play a vital role, when one would stick on to ego or lose onto the relationship and vice-versa.

Hope is all that keeps you alive and helps to work on something which you love the most.

When you really desire something from the heart and soul, all the universe conspires you to achieve it.

The woods are lovely dark and deep but I have promises to keep and miles to go before I sleep.

Is MARRIAGE an emotional pact or societal pact between two different and beautiful souls?